Failing at the right things often creates freedom to succeed in what truly matters. Conversely, success in areas of life that do not really matter entraps us in a de-humanizing cycle. This kind of success diminishes our personhood – sure, things look good from the outside, but if we are honest, the façade of success slowly gnaws away within. Learn more about failing for success in this blog.

'Verge' is a word that has deep resonance with our human experience. We are all constantly 'on the verge' of becoming who we are going to be – whether for better, or for worse. This is an exciting, as well as a daunting realization… Learn more about Verge in this blog post.

We all yearn to be re-humanized. To be recognised and loved. Re-humanization transpires in relationships where we are embraced in the fullness of our humanity. Learn more in this blog post as a follow up to Part 1 : Dehumanization.

There is much in life that dehumanizes. There are factors out of our control, the actions of others against us. We also participate in our own dehumanization. This blog sets the foundation to understanding how we dehumanize ourselves, whilst part 2 discusses how to rehumanize ourselves.

Life’s fragility has been exposed, with COVID-19 wrenching this truth from the depths of our subconscious, amplifying anxiety as taken for granted ‘guarantees’ remain no longer. Learn more about the hidden opportunity for better change in the midst of difficult emotions.

Verge ‘fits’ therapy to you. Each session is tailored to your unique needs, values and goals. In this blog read about some of the methods we use and why we believe therapy should be personalised for every individual.

Depression will impact the lives of approximately 2.6 million* Australians this year. In my experience as a counsellor (and reflecting upon my own life), people often wait for their depression to progress into despair before seeking help. While such a delay is unfortunate as early intervention can greatly reduce suffering, the courageous decision to ask for help is something I always admire my clients for. The time must be right for them, and paradoxically, some of the most remarkable transformations I have had the privilege to witness have been catalyzed by “rock-bottom” times in peoples lives.

We can only change when we accept ourselves as we are. Self-acceptance is a posture of relating to our self, a compassionate embrace that is achieved through radical self-honesty. Explore how and why in this post written by Lachlan Savill.

It is a ‘crying-shame’ when we believe the accusations of shame. Shame corners and convinces us that we are not good enough for meaningful relationships. This blog discusses the truth behind shame and the anti-dote which is meaningful relationships. Written by our counsellor Lachlan Savill.

Our reflections on what really happens when therapy goes well for clients. Gain insight through the eyes of a counsellor.